 I decided to take The 5 Love Languages® quiz for Singles. Here are my results...  ACTS OF SERVICE 33% QUALITY TIME 20% WORDS OF AFFIRMATION 17% PHYSICAL TOUCH 17% RECEIVING GIFTS 13% ACTS OF SERVICE 33%
Yup. Sounds about right. I've taken this test once before and I'm pretty sure this one used to come in behind Quality Time. As I've gotten older, my needs in a relationship have changed. In my past relationships, I've always been the caretaker. Emotionally, physically, financially. In doing this, my emotional & physical needs were never met and my financial wants were put on hold. Moving forward, I want someone that will pour into me, as much as I pour into them. Reciprocity. Equally yoked while continuing to support one another & help each other thrive. QUALITY TIME 20% This one is also HUGE for me. Honor your commitments with me. Make time for me. We are all busy, myself included. However, I prioritize what matters. Constantly showing up late and/or not being fully present makes me feel as if you don't truly value me or my time. If I can carve out the time, so can you. You chose not to. This is the quickest way for me to lose interest. WORDS OF AFFIRMATION 17% Words are great. Actions are better. 🤷🏾♀️ PHYSICAL TOUCH 17% There's nothing like a good hug from someone you care about. I don't mind a little (or a lot of) PDA. I'm all for cuddling at home. Except when I'm sleeping. 🙅🏾♀️I don't care for being touched when I'm actually trying to sleep. LOL RECEIVING GIFTS 13% I love a good gift. Is it top priority? No. However, I do think it's important to treat the one you love. Especially on special occasions. I would be pretty salty if I didn't get a Valentine's or B-Day gift considering I ask for nada throughout the rest of the year.
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